Rubber, Meet Road Part 2

So as I was saying before I was so rudely sidetracked…

I’m determined to move on these goals this year. I can’t stay stagnant any longer. The stakes are too high. But as with everyone, we’ll see, I guess. I’m going to do my best.

4. Get Your Money Right

Goal 1: Get out of debt in two years.
Goal 2: Stick to a monthly budget down to the dollar.

• DoorDash rarely or never: cook your meals and don’t spend money on delivery—especially since you’re trying to eat right!
• Get a debt snowball set up: use your budget software and figure out a set amount to reserve for debt each money in order to get it GONE in two years.
• Stick to your budget down to the dollar: I use EveryDollar.com for my budgeting. It’s something I’ve used for years, but I always allow myself to go into the red. That will stop!

5. Get Out of the House!

Goal 1: Visit a friend every month, even just for lunch.
Goal 2: Set up day trips with the family once a month.

• Save money for weekend trips with the family: they don’t have to cost much, just schedule time to get out with your family and spend time outside, in public, around people.
• Set aside funds for lunch with a friend each month: Just reconnect with a friend. Spend the day, have lunch or just meet for a movie.
• Take a walk outside: They don’t have to take long, but 10 minutes of sunshine can change your trajectory (and your heart health).

6. Be Still

Goal 1: Meditate at least 10 minutes each morning.
Goal 2: Read 24 books this year.

• Start your morning with silence: no phone, no media, no news. Start your morning with silence, reading, meditation—the inner work.
• Set aside times to read: read before bed, read during your lunch break, read instead of watching TV. Be intentional!

All of these are worthy goals. And I have no idea if I’ve done this right, but I’m making progress. I’ve been cooking meals (I tell AI what I have in my cupboard, and it helps me make a dish), I’ve been eating better (though I’ve been on a PB sandwich kick with Coke Zero the past few mornings — not the breakfast of champions) and I’ve felt better (which is a huge blessing from where I was).

It’s the small things. Taking the small steps. I can’t say I’m angry enough to turn everything upside-down, but I am determined to make this year significant for myself.

It’s a start.

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